Blake Gardner
Learning to simply stand/hold your claim "in honor" amidst much confusion, intimidation and trickery is the hardest part of the game as we often are our own worst enemies (govern yourself or be governed) but it is also the most exciting part of the game. The part were you really if your humble enough to learn from your mistakes - get to know yourself, your weakness and flaws. Those are the buttons that THEY consciously press. It is a process of maturity and a very rewarding at that, when you consider the cost against value ratio:-)