If I have learned any one thing of value, the one thing I value the most, at this time, Is to recognize that "2+2 =4"
No matter where it comes from. The trick is objectivity. I am passionate at times and it fucks with my reason. I know enough to know enough that, things often look different after some time has passed.
So I also realize that we all come from different places, Just cause I can not be of assistance to some one does not mean that I cannot learn from what paths they find.
So it is about me .... and doing what I can to pay it forward, so to speak.